Nights Thinking… 

The evenings are so much shorter these days as I’m not just talking about it getting darker earlier , it just used to be consumed by early suppers then getting the kids doing and finishing their homework then baths and showers and one tv show and reading time and  then off to bed. Now it’s later suppers and whoever is here to eat what I make and when then earlier settling in bed to watch some shows but now replaced with catching up on them on stream lining NBC the next day because hubby has to get up so much earlier for work so earlier to bed because we are older now and mornings are not good without the proper sleep🙄 how things have changed … oh believe me this is not a rant or complaint just a sad statement to life  and how much it changed in the past couple of years . I’m adjusting it’s a lot more simple  and sometimes less stressful but I’m learning or should say my hubby and I are learning how to relate to our older kids now and our life with eachother again … you will be so surprised if your younger and just starting out with marriage, babies and your reading this and going what ? Believe me now that my kids have grown and we are less needed and the focus is not all on them . You  come to realize how much you and your better half have changed and grown it’s such an amazing thing . I find that we are settled in our own routine and that’s okay and we have our routine as a couple as well it’s so different how we relate now ,this whole new chapter . Waiting to be discovered .   

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Beautiful!!

So I’m keeping myself busy you will know what I mean if you read my last post hahaha I was hanging laundry in one of my spare rooms well I should call it a whatever room its chaotic okay that is for another day believe me… so I was hanging wet clothes and I look out the window and my Crab Apple tree just over night it seems has become even more beautiful the flowers are the most vibrate pink.. red color I have ever seen it. I just put down the laundry and just stared at it , its so breath taking the photo does not do half the justice it deserves .I just couldn’t help sharing. ..and yes taken from inside through the window actually  it came out better then I thought figuring  it was taken through a window. well enjoy. 🙂

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Women!!!!

Women are a amazing creation, they love endlessly , they are stronger then they will ever know . women can carry a life in them for 9months and not think twice about doing it all over again.women think beyond  their minds but think with their hearts. They can see both sides of a situation and then decide… Women have this built in alarm called there gut instinct that never is in  question if something is wrong or right.women, women may fall from life’s  mishaps but get right back up.women  care deeply and honestly . A  women is one of Gods most precious gift

 

 

Yes Soap opera (Soapy’s)

20160302_132144-1-1Yes I watch Soaps …. actually one soap  my favorite  Days of our lives . My favorite hour of the day  at 1:00 and people who know me well do not call or talk to me at that time. I started watching this when I became pregnant with my 1st child and I decided to be a stay at home mom so that is 20 yrs so far of watching this amazing daytime show I rocked her and then my 2nd child my son to sleep watching this . and ever since then its just gets better and better its like a good book romance drama yes you name it. and now I tweet as I watch it with my twitter friends yes I call them my friends everyday good amount of us tweet as we watch it it’s great we laugh we share our sadness and happiness through our tweets and yes and unhappiness too . Today was an end of an era the rich madman villain head of the the family dynasty who has been on since 1982 did a farewell episode amazing flashbacks and memories the characters talked about it was actually sad because he was such a great actor but decided due to health reason time to say goodbye and it was just amazing how it came to an end. good by Stefano Dimera…….