Our Night Out !

Tonight my hubby and I went out for our Wedding Anniversary that is actually tomorrow but celebrated earlier at our favorite Pub in town . It’s quaint and cozy ,my hubby started off with a beer and I had a cappuccino , I’m not much of a drinker . As we enjoyed those we enjoyed them with a nice light conversation in the cozy atmosphere . Love how you can looks over the water . It was busy for a small place but it was so calming our meals came and we had to pack them to go we just couldn’t finish it all .. we did share a dessert you never leave with out a dessert and you can see from the photo well worth it My hubby decided to finish the time with a coffee. too It was a very beautiful .night. Nothing like a simple place Then we came home to a quiet house and decided to watched a movie our daughter told us about , 47meters … okay if you do not like to be under water do not watch … oh my it was an exhausting movie hahaha … now we are cozy in bed it’s a cold night looking at freezing rain and rain coming in tonight. So a sleep late kinda of morning I hope . .. why not ❤️

My Valentines Day….

This years Valentines Day was a quiet one ,  My husband and I where not feeling that great ..not surprised with everything that is going around at the moment  so we ordered in from one of our favorite places enjoyed a quiet but delicious meal . Our kids where out so it was very quiet .. then we decides to settle in our bedroom and and get cozy  under the the covers and watch our shows we watch on Tuesday nights and so we laughed mind you in between coughing and the kitty Miss Abigail scratching at our bed  ….okay so not the most romantic night but lets see we will be celebrating  our 22nd wedding anniversary  next week and that isn’t adding in the fact 4yrs together before  that.  we must be doing something right hahaha .and adding in sickness what can you do so we made the best of it . I must say the I loved it and it was so simple and cozy and nice, sometimes the littlest things are the most meaningful and memorable ,Didn’t I say in my past posts its the simple things in life that makes me happy.

Saturday?..

So it’s Saturday …hmmm that night went by fast I guess I actually slept good this week after all ..with all the crazy weather and my daughter getting home late at night from work…yes even at 20 you worry that’s what us moms do and sadly are very good at it. Then it was quick cup of coffee a quick shower and the off to the post office my son and I went  before it closes at noon..When my son orders things on line he is very good at keeping track of when things  come of course it was a Saturday morning….ughhh so now that’s all set everyone is off and doing there thing and I my took care of a few things around  the house around .Tonight my husband and I are going out to dinner to celebrate our anniversary it’s the cutest  little place in our town so relaxing and quaint the lighting is set low there is soft music its just such a perfect little place ,The West End Pub it’s called and the food is so amazing. I will try to get some pictures. Enjoy your Saturday everyone.

21st Anniversary!!!

Today is mine and my husbands 21st Anniversary, I am in awe of how fast that came let’s see if you add 6 yrs together before getting married we have been together 27 yrs. where did that time go it’s not a blur but more like  book that is  left out in the wind and the pages flip  rapidly  through and you can’t grab the book  in time before the wind looses your page . life has changed a lot since we got married …yes that is what happens that is what is suppose to happen, we get married or not we have kids or not we focus on our careers or not whatever the path we choose or where god leads you.. my husband and I worked a lot and we chose to buy a house that needed a lot of love and care and we knew we wanted to marry we jumped on it  so we worked through the week and weekends were spent working on the house with the help of family and friends ..  and we  spent our weekends with friends or at our home with home cooked meals  snuggled on the couch with a good movie and snacks money was tight but it worked  we had two dogs we got has pups and they were our babies. life was good we had fun  and then one day I found I was pregnant which nothing we planned on or was   against just didn’t think this  could ever be possible because with my health issues and that is where God chose my path with this blessing of a beautiful baby girl and I a stay at home mom. yes it was a little hard financially at first but that what I chose and  it worked out in the end and then five years later I received my second blessing my handsome baby boy and my doctor said okay no more you have two healthy kids a girl and a boy …I agreed never imagined this would be possible I became busy things changed rapidly like life does but you never imagine. I was busy being a mom and I  took the role very seriously I love being a mom love taking care of my family and then guess what?? They grew up and I found myself less busy less chaotic less the cool mom but just a mom that quote my son who I am not his friend but his mother…hmmm okay.. yes boys have a mind of their own and have all the answers well mine thinks so. My daughter graduated works a lot and spends time with her boyfriend but we get our lunch out day.:)  my kids are beautiful and turned out to be good kind people ,so since them getting older I have been so  focused on so much of who am I? and thinking I lost myself and my husband but each day I am learning and finding out yes I have change yes my husband has changed….we grew up and as I sit here writing I think I haven’t lost myself Im still back to writing like I have always loved to do but didn’t have time and reading more and socializing again but without the kids. I was so worried how our marriage would be now but it’s calm content and we are happy and learning the next chapter in our lives and god willing we keep learning.