Awww…

A rough start to the day if you read my last post as of this afternoon ..the oil guy was so nice he called me around 4 this afternoon said the suns out things are melting let me give it another try thankfully hubby was home and sanded the driveway as he pulled in and yes we got oil. Then the evening sky turned dark not a very good sunset clouds moved in and it’s cold now . My daughter arrived home with a decaf mocha cherry flavored latte , Starbucks is only offering it until Valentines Day . It taste like a chocolate covered cherry ,omg so good. So thankful for her thinking of me ❤️ now for my son to arrive home from the gym with is girl friend /not , been doing this on and off for 3yrs ….okay that’s for another day hahaha any ways .. adult coloring and enjoying my latte 🙂

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Melting…

it’s been raining for two days now and , the snow is melting away with no snowstorms in the forecast well what they say right at the moment. It’s just ugly looking out hahaha yes I know so blunt but it is the snow less ground is so muddy and the snow that there is is all muddy and gross looking. It’s bittersweet because one I’m not a fan of it but at the same time no snow means no work for my son . Working at a ski resort you need snow 😥 hopefully by the weekend it gets cold enough to make some. The squirrels are loving it though Their running all over the place. They look the way my son looked when he woke up to a two hour school delay because the rain caused some icing ,it threw him all off his routine he kept saying ok what am I doing after a little persuading he let me help him with getting him some breakfast . He is not a morning person well a talkative one so I kept the talking to a minimum 🙄 and he made it out the door on time and with everything together and food in him. Thanks mom🙂

Just not the same…

.       Yes it was a snow day, but just not the same anymore…not snowed in life went on as usual.. work for my daughter, gym for my son and cleaning for myself  only thing  that was the  same ,my hubby was home so it was all business as usual No stuck at home together cuddled under blankets lounging around with hot chocolate and movies after sledding ,no snow angels or snowmen being made.or just even the cars being stuck in the driveway and all of us doing different things inside but at least all at home together. No cars made it out just fine and life didn’t stop for the day. I need to get use to this   These kind of days things have changed and I need to as well even though I do not go out on days like this with my hip but it’s about my mindset that needs to change and except this it’s the way it suppose to be. Im trying believe me but change is not one of the thingsI except easily . .  Tonight we are all home but it’s nigh hahaha a quieter night friends are gone home my son is finishing up homework my daughter is down In her place ,my hubby and I are settled under our covers watching our shows soon he will be snoring because he always falls asleep before me .okay somethings never change.🙂

Warm rainy Friday!

Mother Nature is playing tricks now after the 0 Temps last week we are now in the 50″s and rain a lot of rain so I don’t know what is worse being cold or being warm when we should be cold it’s winter.. Even though it was so warm I still enjoyed a hot butterscotch flavor latte from Starbucks with my daughter because it felt good on my sore throat ,sick of feeling sick. ..Now just relaxing at home with my daughter watching tv as my heart is with my son at his track meet . Being sick and to long on my feet doesn’t help my hip so I’m waiting for updates from my hubby who is there watching him. . I wish I was there with my son . He works so hard for this. I am so proud of him❤️

Awkward……

this is a photo taken from my bedroom yes that is my hallway that leads to the basement left door where Miss Abigail is waiting then which is my daughters place …then as you see my back door straight ahead it’s a ranch style house it’s actually a bit bigger and longer then the photo shows but it’s all close quarters the reason I’m showing this is because where my bed is my hubby and I can look straight down the hallway at night . Sadly the way we have it set up at the moment so we do not block the heaters anyways what an awkward moment tonight tomorrow I may laugh about it , right now I’m in awe (hahaha) my hubby and I where watching our TV Shows and both of our kids came home so my daughter who was in a very chatty mood and loves to come in our room and sit on the end of our bed and tell me about her day at work ….just so you know she has done this since she was little ,our son when he was little use to lay at the end of our bed and we would watch shows and movies and by the time the movie was over he would be asleep and my hubby would carry him to bed. So yes always been something that was comfortable with them ,my son will come in when he gets home at night but stands at the door and will chat a bit then go to bed but my daughter could talk for hours sitting here. So tonight here she was and she is complaining about her Ex boyfriend who she sadly has to work with and I do not blame her for being bothered by him . Well as she is chatting away she’s waiting for her new guy to show that she is seeing so they can go get something to eat and we’ll one I’m laying in bed all cozy and my hubby is in the bathroom and I happen to look down the hallway and I see this person walking slowly down the hallway and at first I’m thinking why is seth walking so slow then realize my son already went to bed and I’m like oh my it’s Jamie’s guy so I say is name and like say how are you trying to get my daughter to stop chatting about her Ex and I do not know how much he heard but at the same time this all looked so weird and sadly he only can see me but can hear her and the only light came from the nightlight in the hallway and our TV so it was dark and oh boy what a sight it must of been an awkward probably more so for my daughter and I he seemed fine (hahaha) She stopped talking jumped up and went to him and they proceeded out to the kitchen . This guy is so quiet and not shy it took her other boyfriend two maybe three yrs to come upstairs and they where together for four years if he showed up and she was upstairs he would text her this guy well very comfortable and let’s say good thing he is a guy who is all about family and visits his before he goes back on his four night shifts and has dinner with them once a week when they only live 20 minutes away from one another because other people would of thought this was strange 🙂 but still I’m so embarrassed . I guess these are the moments I will always remember….. my poor hubby didn’t have a clue by the time he came out of the bathroom she was already walking towards our kitchen . I’m thinking my daughter and I will have a nice laugh over coffee in the morning . 😂

New Years Day.

Happy New Years everyone! Ringing in the New Years was a very different one this year my husband nod I went to  his families instead of staying home like we have in the  past 10 yrs. it felt strange without my kids,  my daughter worked then went out with a friend and came back home early and watched the festivities on TV and my son who we thought was going to a friends house after we left ended up staying home because his friends decided not to do anything so we brought him food home and even though he won’t admit it I believe he was a little  bummed because after eating the food  we brought he said he was tired and didn’t feel like staying up till 12 and went to bed at 11  I was happy he was still up in bed when 12 hit so I could wish him a Happy New Year . After that we where all tired and it was cold  we went to bed. Morning came fast and the new year is here and I am happily still not doing a resolution , I think a try to be less worry mom when both kids are out especially my son who I bug checking in on him too fast ….try I say thankfully even though he seemed bummed I was happy he was home. Any ways it was a busy day taking the tree down and decorations put away and getting the house back in its order. My daughter of course is out with a friend and my son is home writing College essays to apply for colleges. Plus homework and getting ready for back to school tomorrow.

I at the moment have sat for a bit and now need to finish preparing supper. This day is flying by I just hope this month does as fast I do not like the month of January it’s my dread month ….too long and too cold and it’s just depressing, I’m trying not to think this way I hope my coloring books and books  I have to read  and writing most defintantly keep me busy as long with getting out to spend more time with my best friend. I am happy we gain a minute a of light each day so that’s is a plus. 🙂

Ready…

Just about ready for Christmas just need to stop thinking if it was enough .. yes I know I have posted how it’s not about things but I’m a mom and I can’t help not to think about it even though I know they have enough anyways . I have to laugh the other evening I had said to my son I know your in between jobs and really have not much money , he looked at me like oh no so I went on , you know that old I pad that you have sitting in your room for about a yr unused? if your going to not use it you could give that to me . He. Says ” what that you would take that as a gift it’s old . …ok all of you must be thinking the same thing hahaha it is but for me it’s just enough and bigger to write on my blog with and less heavier then the laptop. So he looked at me and said okay in a drawn out way . Let me clean my things off of it as he did and then he says “so he said he would need my password to my iPhone acct okay then the problem began …… I am not good at remembering them so I went looked for my password book oh did I mention I’m not very organized aw well 😥 so I look at it and gave it to him he say ok well no it’s not that. Then around and around we went with every password I could think of I changed it and didn’t write it down again. He “says wow actually this is nice I miss this ” I m like oh no you don’t or fine then I guess you can buy me something well he was like”no I can figure something out hahaha so all said and done he did figure it out and I wrote the new password down . It’s not bad a bit slow but not that bad and it still takes excellent pictures . I told him I was simple he said yes you are but not in the password department 🙂oh how true he is but what was so funny was the look he gives me when I do stupid things he just does the roll of the eyes and the same grump face since he was two , I love it!❤️ something never change.