This place we call life…

Oh if life came with a manual …. how to treat others how to treat ourself  how to learn that growing means change and change is so important but can be so hard sometimes cruel but at the same time sometimes good a blessing if we only knew the answers to this thing called life but then what ? Would it help us would it only disappoint us when we fund out that this life we have to work for what we want . and who and to find that path on our owner we could fail.  . I know life is hard but once you get through the bad it’s beautiful but you have to take the chance and just do it if not how will you ever know. 

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This place we call life…

Oh if life came with a manual …. how to treat others how to treat ourself  how to learn that growing means change and change is so important but can be so hard sometimes cruel but at the same time sometimes good a blessing if we only knew the answers to this thing called life but then what ? Would it help us would it only disappoint us when we fund out that this life we have to work for what we want . and who and to find that path on our owner we could fail.  . I know life is hard but once you get through the bad it’s beautiful but you have to take the chance and just do it if not how will you ever know. 

Good Morning!

Woke up earlier to frost covering the ground and vehicles …brr so cold , soon the heat will have to be turned on and I am  not ready for this , the air conditioners still need to come out but that isnt the only reason I’m waiting just know with the heat turned on and showers being taken the oil will be used up faster.  So today my son had to dress up  for  his schools Booster day .. love when he does he cleans up well black dress pants  dress shoes white shirt,  tie . Looks sharp I’m happy he is getting into this.

   On another note my daughter is going through her own changes she broke it off with her boyfriend after 5 yrs…..yes a long relationship but one that was not going anywhere and she felt it would never change he is 6 yrs older then her but she acts older does more had to make all the decisions and he just didn’t have motivation not even for work, works what he has to and so on ,I do not want to bad mouth him . It just was time . She has changed in so many ways and she felt this so she wants a bit more.and  not being in a happy place is not a good  place to be. Hopefully they both can learn from this and grow. I hope so, but what do I know I’m just a mom🙄 

Good Morning!

Woke up earlier to frost covering the ground and vehicles …brr so cold , soon the heat will have to be turned on and I am  not ready for this , the air conditioners still need to come out but that isnt the only reason I’m waiting just know with the heat turned on and showers being taken the oil will be used up faster.  So today my son had to dress up  for  his schools Booster day .. love when he does he cleans up well black dress pants  dress shoes white shirt,  tie . Looks sharp I’m happy he is getting into this.

   On another note my daughter is going through her own changes she broke it off with her boyfriend after 5 yrs…..yes a long relationship but one that was not going anywhere and she felt it would never change he is 6 yrs older then her but she acts older does more had to make all the decisions and he just didn’t have motivation not even for work, works what he has to and so on ,I do not want to bad mouth him . It just was time . She has changed in so many ways and she felt this so she wants a bit more.and  not being in a happy place is not a good  place to be. Hopefully they both can learn from this and grow. I hope so, but what do I know I’m just a mom🙄 

Good Morning!

Woke up earlier to frost covering the ground and vehicles …brr so cold , soon the heat will have to be turned on and I am  not ready for this , the air conditioners still need to come out but that isnt the only reason I’m waiting just know with the heat turned on and showers being taken the oil will be used up faster.  So today my son had to dress up  for  his schools Booster day .. love when he does he cleans up well black dress pants  dress shoes white shirt,  tie . Looks sharp I’m happy he is getting into this.

   On another note my daughter is going through her own changes she broke it off with her boyfriend after 5 yrs…..yes a long relationship but one that was not going anywhere and she felt it would never change he is 6 yrs older then her but she acts older does more had to make all the decisions and he just didn’t have motivation not even for work, works what he has to and so on ,I do not want to bad mouth him . It just was time . She has changed in so many ways and she felt this so she wants a bit more.and  not being in a happy place is not a good  place to be. Hopefully they both can learn from this and grow. I hope so, but what do I know I’m just a mom🙄 

Moments…

Laying here now in bed and remembering  .. just went through old photographs  of my Son when he was little trying to pick some out for his senior congratutory page in his high school yearbook . Never thought this would be so hard, so many photos I want and I have to choose from but yes it’s only a page🙂  and looking  back just reminds me how fast time does go  by… sad actually seems like yesterday I was just rocking him to sleep with his little head laying on my chest and always one hand holding on to  my hair that hung down . I never knew why he did that but I will always remember that . Now I look at him it’s remarkable how much his appearance has change well of course it has hahaha  but when he was little his hair was as white as snow and his face his longer then oval now tNothig like the photos that stared back at me some hours ago .  . My daughter still has some features from when she was little so people can  still tell it’s her . No one recognizes my son if they haven’t seen him in awhile it’s so unbelievable . I think I have some resemblence when I was a kid . It’s strange how it goes . So just laying here and amazed and slowly drifting off to sleep . Monday will be hear before we know it So I guess it’s time to get some sleep. Good Night …

Long weekend.. 

It’s Monday night settled in bed it’s such a dark night no moon to light up the room .. sadly this three day weekend went by too fast but doesn’t alway..What a simple calm weekend it was , Started off with a Friday night  football game under the lights  and my son played . He did amazing for someone who has not played since middle school . They didn’t win but they had fun and they played hard ..yes mom looked away a couple of times sorry couldn’t help  it . . Looking forward to this Friday . So the weather wasn’t the best , these three days rainy off and on and very humid, air conditioner is still running . Ready for son fall weather. Saturday night we had takeout  and then the kids left with friends for awhile and my hubby and I just read and watched tv with Miss Abigail by our side Thankfully the kids came home early so we settled in early it was a early morning my son with SAT’s  at 8 and my daughter for work at 8 and my husband putting the roof on his yes I say his new barn hahaha it started out as a  shed and turned into a barn everyone laughs and says is  this when your wife gets sick of you and kicks you out we laugh I tell them both the guys (my son) they laugh so yes we have a barn. So after that work my hubby was ready to relax good thing it rained the rest of the day. Then Sunday was food shopping day and a dump run then movie night at home with our daughter . Watched Gold with Matthew Maconoly so good a must see. Then now to the last day of our weekend and was  it a washout so we just took a ride and grabbed some coffee to enjoy on it . Must say even in the rain it was very pleasant love simple ..need simple this world is just too crazy and  it’s not looking like it will change  anytime  soon so simple it is for us safe way to be . I have aways prefer the simple path  doesn’t always work but for the most part  it does it’s just how you manage to do it.  Tomorrow will. be back to the norm,  hubby and daughter at work and son at school and practice  and I cleaning the house up from some neglected chores.  While Miss Abigail keeps me company 🙂 so for now off to bed hope everyone has a goodnight or day wherever you are in the this part of the globe🙂