People….

Hi Everyone I hope all of you had a good weekend and Monday.I did until this evening just warning you this could be a long post beware 😭… I alway thought I was a people person actually I don’t know now I guess it depends on the person so maybe not .I looked up the definition and it states people that are good with dealing with people okay well yes and no then . A person I have known since my son and her daughter went to preschool and now graduating together I could take her but would need a break because she could become over bearing with a lot of un called forbragging and know it all …but this past last week we have done well chatting through text well the Facebook app and it’s actually been pleasant .Tonight she stepped over the line over something yes important but not important enough to be hurtful .. My son didn’t participate at the fundraiser for his class he went to sports practice and then came home and did homework and my hubby and I where not going to go then and we respected his option to op out he told them no it was a dinner .. one he wasn’t the only one who didn’t participate but that’s is not the point.. I know any how it’s a bit late I told him what’s it for we have paid for a yearbook they where not suppose to , will be paying for his graduation gown so where is the money going ? My son said I believe for our first class reunion my hubby and I where like what…. that’s 5 yrs away … and this lady had been on me all day leaving messages on oh how her daughter was running everywhere doing all the work and it just kept going … now she can stretch the truth a bit and her daughter can over do herself to try to look like the best once again not the point …and remind you I was still ok was not letting her get to me. My son has had a hard time lately with classmates he’s ready he needs to graduate soon he does not do drama and well he told me I would regret chatting with her and my daughter warned me as well he and she where so right she rubbed people in my face this evening because my son and hubby and I where not going to let her push us to go … if anyone knows me you do not do that.. then I’m done …. and she hit hard with that and all I have ever done was mind my own business take care of my family , teach my kids to be good and be polite we have done what we needed to do. This yr so anyways we taught our kids never let anyone ever belittle you well .. hmm I guess doing this I’ve shown people you can walk all over me .. oh mo I’m not that easy so now I am done. People do not know me .

I try to be a nice person to everyone . I do not get in other peoples business . I honestly think my blogger friends oh and my family and closes friends know me the best. I can be myself when I write ..right now yes I’m venting … just so angry, hurt if I could of stomped around earlier I would of but I can’t because that would only hurt my hip 😂. I’ve only shown kindness to this person but then to throw people in my face especially the people who’s kids hurt my sons feelings and trust so much and this lady knows it is a low blow. Why? These parents are as bad as their kids with drama …. why are people so hurtful life is so short and people worry and hurt others over the simplest things. My kids say I worry too much about making people happy that I should worry about myself is that the right thing? Is that what we are suppose to do ? I really do not know anymore.. of course for starters my son said Facebook should go hahaha true….getting there . Yes I am just trying to figure things out …

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Calm…

It’s Wednesday night , half way through the week. settled in bed watching my shows with my hubby the window is a bit open the day was beautiful sunny and warm it’s made for a warm night just right in temperature ,earlier I found Miss Abigail in my sons bedroom window because he has his wide open I could see why she was enjoying it so much even though it was dark you could still hear a bird the night traffic and the feel of the fresh air blow gently through. It was such a peaceful feeling bring back the care free days of summer . The moon is getting full the light from the moon has cast a shadow over our yard I’m sure Miss Abigail could see all across it . Looking for critters. Spring 🙂

It had been a calm easy non drama no attitude no yelling no almost burning down the house okay you need to read my last posts for that …quiet easy going kind of day. ahhh really nice for a change. The last couple of weeks ..days have been chaotic can’t say what tomorrow will bring but at least today I had a break .. refueled so that was good. Now crossing my fingers we get through the rest of the week this calm.

Moments!

Oh how I love the laughter! I believe there is 6 teenagers crammed in my sons room ones a girl but all good her brothers here too her brother is my sons good track buddy who is now in his 2nd yr of college and his sister is graduating with my son. they all showed up to ransack my kitchen making food and to hang out . Ahh love nights like this as long and little it lasts I’ll take it. Basically when the food runs out 🙂 my hubby and I are in the living room watching our shows . I know as much as my son was tired and wanted to rest for his race tomorrow I think he is happy that their all here . We are too 🙂 it’s a nice Friday night.

Quiet …

Ahh so happy there is really no snow coming our way, I want the schools track to stay clear . 3rd day of track and field practice for my son. I believe he’s enjoying it. I’m happy to see him content at the moment . The evenings here and my hubby and I have finished our dinner and cleaned up the kitchen now we are just relaxing in the quietness of our house watching the evening news and it’s 6:30 here and still light out which is a plus. My daughter is still working but heading back out later with a friend., my son arrived home from practice with a couple of his buddies and have gone out can’t complain he’s been home the past three nights , that’s a record for him hahaha.. after the news I think I will settle and read the book my daughter lended me . It feels nice to be reading again. . I think we will have company though when my daughter goes out later Miss Abigail will be laying with my hubby and I ❤️

Lazy Sunday…

it’s so brutally cold out today so it’s a perfect day for corn beef and cabbage, as its cooking away I am being lazy cozy in my chair enjoying a hot cup of coffee and some old tv shows . Thankfully it’s just I in the living room 🙂my hubby not at home my son is taking a nap just getting home from work and my daughter is getting ready for work . They do not like my oldie but goodies shows. The wind is just whipping around this house making creaking noises you would think instead of heading into Spring we are heading back into winter. The heat is up which hasn’t been running like this for weeks. Oh the benefits of living in New England or not. Oh well enjoying my lazy day 🙂

Sunday Ride❤️

The weather is cold and dreary but my hubby and I decided to get out of the house we really didn’t feel like going into town shopping kind of outting . A pleasant ride was what we we looking for . So the radio in the truck playing music heat on so nice and warm …. So we just went on good old back roads . As you see no snow .. That could change by Wednesday, but we where surprise because even parts in the woods where there usually is wasn’t much just patches here and there.  The sap buckets are out if you notice the pails on the trees .. Hopefully the sap is running… And when the sap stops running they will be collecting those pales from all over the towns and boiling the sap into sweet and delicious maple syrup !  The best  sweetest tastes on pancakes , French toast .. Waffles you will ever taste. I still need to make the homemade pancakes my friend yes I like to call her my friend , she follows my blog as I follow hers and she gave me the recipe I  need to still try and post on here for her . If your reading you know who you are🙂 I haven’t forgotten.  The ride was nice did spot some deer in a field but didn’t want to stop the truck  and take a picture  scare them off . We just let them be. Now we are home and supper needs to be our next thing to think about so for now  I will go have a great evening everyone🙂

The Weekend..

This was the beautiful sunset tonight after Friday’s Nor’Eastern as you can see where we live we are snow free we had rain and a lot of it . So the ground is pretty drenched. The towns 15 minutes away came out of the storm with 6 inches or more… so today was a bit colder even though the sun was out . It was a lazy Saturday for my hubby and I the kids had work so my hubby and I did errands then ordered takeout for supper. Now we are settled in bed on our 2nd JAWS movie it’s shark frenzy weekend on our movie channel ..We missed the 1st Jaws so we watched Jaws 2 and now on Jaws 3 how they made a Jaws 3 I don’t know hahaha sadly bad acting should of stopped at the 2nd one . My hubby’s yawning so he won’t last long 🙂 My son just shook his head at us as he went to bed . He was up late last night at a college hockey game with some buddies and then was up early for work and then the gym , always moving. Well this movie didn’t last long hahahaha hubby begged to shut it off he couldn’t take the hour of it left to go . So now it’s the humming of the fan as noise yes always a fan running one of many things I have come to get use to over the yrs being with my hubby. Funny thing when he works nights in the summer sometimes I have the fan going even if it’s cool enough . Funny what we get accustomed to. Soon my daughter should arrive home and Grab Miss Abigail to bring her down to bed before she is jumping up on our bed and in my hubby’s face keeping him awake . She loves to do that. I guess its time to call it a night and get some sleep too. Good night everyone and if it’s morning where you are good morning🙂