All is quiet …

it’s a Thursday night almost to the weekend . Ahh one that is whatever we feel like doing ..grabbing a coffee taking a ride maybe go to our favorite Pub or no plans at all a movie at home . .. nice . Well the wind blew like it was having a tantrum last night if your read my last post . It was horrible but luckily we didn’t loose power or trees. Woke to the sun shining but very cold , Mother Nature is not ready to release Spring yet. The day was once again quiet no arguing no in and out of the door , everyone came home from work and School and settled in for the evening . All went smoothly .. now it’s night and the winds have calmed hubby and are watching he finale of our show .my son just made a cup of tea and went to his room . He’s been having a heard time sleeping so he has been drinking tea to help him sleep . I think we could all use some tea. Hoping when we get through prom , graduation and settle with college things will relax a bit. For now just getting through day by day. I really need to color and read . Well I’m actually yawning earlier for once so I guess I will get some sleep . Goodnight everyone.


Good Morning!

imageGood Morning ! It’s a  quiet morning and going to be a quiet day as well with Miss. Abigail and I wherever she is roaming around the house some where. Everyones off to work and school early .i was looking forward to the first day off Track and Field for my Son but because of the rain and Thunderstorms coming in ….yes thunderstorms possibly ,strange after having snow showers the day before. Well anyways the meet got cancelled. Enjoying my coffee and catching up on the news of course the washing machine is always a noise echoing through my house that or the dishwasher … Always something …today I will not be pushing myself too much with the warmer temps and rain my hip is a bit lame . Rain always makes me a bit more lame. So do what I can and then it will be laying low with my soapy and adult coloring I should do some , in he summer I seem to do it less unless it’s a rainy indoor day.. Worked on a page the day before I’m not sure if I like it I messed up with the green not making sure I had the right green and started coloring and now I. can’t go back hahaha  time for one more cup of coffee then do a bit .have a great day everyone 🙂

Easter/ Birthday Weekend..

Sitting here in the quietness well except for the clothes dryer humming ..hubby went for a run my kids are actually sleeping at the moment my daughter busy working through the Easter madness and my son back from a run with his track team . I’m just taking in the quietness until supper is to be made and another trip back to the grocery store after being there for food and Easter shopping ,now to go back to pick my hubby Birthday cake up from their bakery that I ordered. Then to my Mother in laws house it go so my hubby doesn’t see it and where will be spending Easter tomorrow. Friday was nice same ok during the day the usual errands and cores to be done ,hubby went out with his brother and work friends for some beers since he’s turning 50 which he is not looking forward to . My son hung out with some friends and my daughter and I grabbed supper out then came home and cozy up with a movie she wanted me to watch with her. So that was nice . Now Easter / Birthday tomorrow . Long but lazy tired weekend🙂


It’s Wednesday night , half way through the week. settled in bed watching my shows with my hubby the window is a bit open the day was beautiful sunny and warm it’s made for a warm night just right in temperature ,earlier I found Miss Abigail in my sons bedroom window because he has his wide open I could see why she was enjoying it so much even though it was dark you could still hear a bird the night traffic and the feel of the fresh air blow gently through. It was such a peaceful feeling bring back the care free days of summer . The moon is getting full the light from the moon has cast a shadow over our yard I’m sure Miss Abigail could see all across it . Looking for critters. Spring 🙂

It had been a calm easy non drama no attitude no yelling no almost burning down the house okay you need to read my last posts for that …quiet easy going kind of day. ahhh really nice for a change. The last couple of weeks ..days have been chaotic can’t say what tomorrow will bring but at least today I had a break .. refueled so that was good. Now crossing my fingers we get through the rest of the week this calm.

Calm before the storm…

it’s 10 at night just finished catching up on my daytime soap I missed today while out running errands with my daughter . Love on demand the best.. you never have to miss your favorite show. So the full moon is out nice and bright shining through our bedroom window it’s not phasing my snoring hubby🙂 he likes it when it’s bright to sleep I like it a bit darker… calm before the storm forecasters are saying that we could get a Nor’Eastern a monstrous one well on the coast of us but we will see some of the effects but their not sure how much by Friday their saying the full moon is not going to help because it brings in the high wave surge which could be historic. I guess I can blame the full moon on the noises I heard last night down in my daughters place you will understand if you read my last post hahah I thought she was home I heard banging around and she wasn’t well she is not home to night as well and I hear nothing downstairs .Miss Abigail who was down there last night is up here with us on our couch sleeping so I think Miss Abigail was banging around down there restless from the moon . Plus the fact I’m learning she probably doesn’t like to be alone . So Im going to go with that for the reason of the noises downstairs . I told my hubby and he said at 2 he was awaken by a weird noise outside he said had to been an animal but couldn’t place what kind not the boys ( coyotes) so he said I didn’t want to wake you too because you where sleeping really good . So I guess we both heard strange noises last night …. all is quiet tonight. much for my daughter being home early like she said … well she is the one who has to get up early tomorrow and I guess I’m going to try to get some sleep . Goodnight everyone 🙂


this is a photo taken from my bedroom yes that is my hallway that leads to the basement left door where Miss Abigail is waiting then which is my daughters place …then as you see my back door straight ahead it’s a ranch style house it’s actually a bit bigger and longer then the photo shows but it’s all close quarters the reason I’m showing this is because where my bed is my hubby and I can look straight down the hallway at night . Sadly the way we have it set up at the moment so we do not block the heaters anyways what an awkward moment tonight tomorrow I may laugh about it , right now I’m in awe (hahaha) my hubby and I where watching our TV Shows and both of our kids came home so my daughter who was in a very chatty mood and loves to come in our room and sit on the end of our bed and tell me about her day at work ….just so you know she has done this since she was little ,our son when he was little use to lay at the end of our bed and we would watch shows and movies and by the time the movie was over he would be asleep and my hubby would carry him to bed. So yes always been something that was comfortable with them ,my son will come in when he gets home at night but stands at the door and will chat a bit then go to bed but my daughter could talk for hours sitting here. So tonight here she was and she is complaining about her Ex boyfriend who she sadly has to work with and I do not blame her for being bothered by him . Well as she is chatting away she’s waiting for her new guy to show that she is seeing so they can go get something to eat and we’ll one I’m laying in bed all cozy and my hubby is in the bathroom and I happen to look down the hallway and I see this person walking slowly down the hallway and at first I’m thinking why is seth walking so slow then realize my son already went to bed and I’m like oh my it’s Jamie’s guy so I say is name and like say how are you trying to get my daughter to stop chatting about her Ex and I do not know how much he heard but at the same time this all looked so weird and sadly he only can see me but can hear her and the only light came from the nightlight in the hallway and our TV so it was dark and oh boy what a sight it must of been an awkward probably more so for my daughter and I he seemed fine (hahaha) She stopped talking jumped up and went to him and they proceeded out to the kitchen . This guy is so quiet and not shy it took her other boyfriend two maybe three yrs to come upstairs and they where together for four years if he showed up and she was upstairs he would text her this guy well very comfortable and let’s say good thing he is a guy who is all about family and visits his before he goes back on his four night shifts and has dinner with them once a week when they only live 20 minutes away from one another because other people would of thought this was strange 🙂 but still I’m so embarrassed . I guess these are the moments I will always remember….. my poor hubby didn’t have a clue by the time he came out of the bathroom she was already walking towards our kitchen . I’m thinking my daughter and I will have a nice laugh over coffee in the morning . 😂

New Years Day.

Happy New Years everyone! Ringing in the New Years was a very different one this year my husband nod I went to  his families instead of staying home like we have in the  past 10 yrs. it felt strange without my kids,  my daughter worked then went out with a friend and came back home early and watched the festivities on TV and my son who we thought was going to a friends house after we left ended up staying home because his friends decided not to do anything so we brought him food home and even though he won’t admit it I believe he was a little  bummed because after eating the food  we brought he said he was tired and didn’t feel like staying up till 12 and went to bed at 11  I was happy he was still up in bed when 12 hit so I could wish him a Happy New Year . After that we where all tired and it was cold  we went to bed. Morning came fast and the new year is here and I am happily still not doing a resolution , I think a try to be less worry mom when both kids are out especially my son who I bug checking in on him too fast ….try I say thankfully even though he seemed bummed I was happy he was home. Any ways it was a busy day taking the tree down and decorations put away and getting the house back in its order. My daughter of course is out with a friend and my son is home writing College essays to apply for colleges. Plus homework and getting ready for back to school tomorrow.

I at the moment have sat for a bit and now need to finish preparing supper. This day is flying by I just hope this month does as fast I do not like the month of January it’s my dread month ….too long and too cold and it’s just depressing, I’m trying not to think this way I hope my coloring books and books  I have to read  and writing most defintantly keep me busy as long with getting out to spend more time with my best friend. I am happy we gain a minute a of light each day so that’s is a plus. 🙂