Just not the same…

.       Yes it was a snow day, but just not the same anymore…not snowed in life went on as usual.. work for my daughter, gym for my son and cleaning for myself  only thing  that was the  same ,my hubby was home so it was all business as usual No stuck at home together cuddled under blankets lounging around with hot chocolate and movies after sledding ,no snow angels or snowmen being made.or just even the cars being stuck in the driveway and all of us doing different things inside but at least all at home together. No cars made it out just fine and life didn’t stop for the day. I need to get use to this   These kind of days things have changed and I need to as well even though I do not go out on days like this with my hip but it’s about my mindset that needs to change and except this it’s the way it suppose to be. Im trying believe me but change is not one of the thingsI except easily . .  Tonight we are all home but it’s nigh hahaha a quieter night friends are gone home my son is finishing up homework my daughter is down In her place ,my hubby and I are settled under our covers watching our shows soon he will be snoring because he always falls asleep before me .okay somethings never change.🙂

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Life……

what is life …let’s see when I was a little girl it was  the smell of fresh cut  grass coming through your open window , bright sun shining in  and jumping out of bed as fast as you could to get outside and feel the grass under your feet. spending the day outside playing kickball or riding your bike with the neighborhood kids until you could hear your mother’s voice yelling supper time. when winter came we couldn’t wait for the snow ,making snow angels and snow forts trying to find the biggest hill to slide down till you couldn’t feel your toes then it was hot chocolate with marshmallows floating around in it. Awww the the life of a kid we we thought we were invisible life was good . Then adulthood came .. college work ,what we were expected to be Or I should say what society expected of us …I must say I was one of the lucky ones my parents just expected us to be happy save and healthy good honest adult and  which I am happy for that . I am a mom now and I go by the same idea  .I am proud of my kid’s no matter what I only ask for them to be respectful to others and honest to themselves and work hard.study hard and live their life to the fullest THEIR way . I get so upset what pressures the kids are under now and the technology that has taken away the play time I grew up with kids do not know what they have missed  .I know life changes but why does everything have to, we put so much pressure on our graduates .. The kids now just have to much handed to them and I try not to fall into that pattern but it’s hard I see kids that have everything handed to them and their selfish and want more but then I see stressed out kid’s depressed kids kid’s heading down a bad path ..  Not all of them but for the most part a large amount of them. I hope at least my kid’s know me not pushing them to the point of exhaustion does not mean I do not  care ….but that I  do care and I want them to be happy rounded adults.