this is a photo taken from my bedroom yes that is my hallway that leads to the basement left door where Miss Abigail is waiting then which is my daughters place …then as you see my back door straight ahead it’s a ranch style house it’s actually a bit bigger and longer then the photo shows but it’s all close quarters the reason I’m showing this is because where my bed is my hubby and I can look straight down the hallway at night . Sadly the way we have it set up at the moment so we do not block the heaters anyways what an awkward moment tonight tomorrow I may laugh about it , right now I’m in awe (hahaha) my hubby and I where watching our TV Shows and both of our kids came home so my daughter who was in a very chatty mood and loves to come in our room and sit on the end of our bed and tell me about her day at work ….just so you know she has done this since she was little ,our son when he was little use to lay at the end of our bed and we would watch shows and movies and by the time the movie was over he would be asleep and my hubby would carry him to bed. So yes always been something that was comfortable with them ,my son will come in when he gets home at night but stands at the door and will chat a bit then go to bed but my daughter could talk for hours sitting here. So tonight here she was and she is complaining about her Ex boyfriend who she sadly has to work with and I do not blame her for being bothered by him . Well as she is chatting away she’s waiting for her new guy to show that she is seeing so they can go get something to eat and we’ll one I’m laying in bed all cozy and my hubby is in the bathroom and I happen to look down the hallway and I see this person walking slowly down the hallway and at first I’m thinking why is seth walking so slow then realize my son already went to bed and I’m like oh my it’s Jamie’s guy so I say is name and like say how are you trying to get my daughter to stop chatting about her Ex and I do not know how much he heard but at the same time this all looked so weird and sadly he only can see me but can hear her and the only light came from the nightlight in the hallway and our TV so it was dark and oh boy what a sight it must of been an awkward probably more so for my daughter and I he seemed fine (hahaha) She stopped talking jumped up and went to him and they proceeded out to the kitchen . This guy is so quiet and not shy it took her other boyfriend two maybe three yrs to come upstairs and they where together for four years if he showed up and she was upstairs he would text her this guy well very comfortable and let’s say good thing he is a guy who is all about family and visits his before he goes back on his four night shifts and has dinner with them once a week when they only live 20 minutes away from one another because other people would of thought this was strange ūüôā but still I’m so embarrassed . I guess these are the moments I will always remember….. my poor hubby didn’t have a clue by the time he came out of the bathroom she was already walking towards our kitchen . I’m thinking my daughter and I will have a nice laugh over coffee in the morning . ūüėā


New Years Day.

Happy New Years everyone! Ringing in the New Years was a very different one this year my husband nod I went to ¬†his families instead of staying home like we have in the ¬†past 10 yrs. it felt strange without my kids, ¬†my daughter worked then went out with a friend and came back home early and watched the festivities on TV and my son who we thought was going to a friends house after we left ended up staying home because his friends decided not to do anything so we brought him food home and even though he won’t admit it I believe he was a little ¬†bummed because after eating the food ¬†we brought he said he was tired and didn’t feel like staying up till 12 and went to bed at 11 ¬†I was happy he was still up in bed when 12 hit so I could wish him a Happy New Year . After that we where all tired and it was cold ¬†we went to bed. Morning came fast and the new year is here and I am happily still not doing a resolution , I think a try to be less worry mom when both kids are out especially my son who I bug checking in on him too fast ….try I say thankfully even though he seemed bummed I was happy he was home. Any ways it was a busy day taking the tree down and decorations put away and getting the house back in its order. My daughter of course is out with a friend and my son is home writing College essays to apply for colleges. Plus homework and getting ready for back to school tomorrow.

I at the moment have sat for a bit and now need to finish preparing supper. This day is flying by I just hope this month does as fast I do not like the month of January it’s my dread month ….too long and too cold and it’s just depressing, I’m trying not to think this way I hope my coloring books and books ¬†I have to read ¬†and writing most defintantly keep me busy as long with getting out to spend more time with my best friend. I am happy we gain a minute a of light each day so that’s is a plus. ūüôā

Never the same…

So it’s a quiet night no friends just the Fam and we are all settled in the only sound I hear is the humming of the air conditioner and for the moment my husband snoring softly…hmm this may get a bit noiser . My son is still recovering from Saturday’s Spartan race thought he could try practice after school because he told us it felt better to keep moving then sitting is legs tighten up sitting . Well he came home and was walking like a mummy once again so I believe he over did it…. always never does anything half¬† way , all or nothing. So he ate and showered and at 7:30 was in bed for the night. My daughter has just arrived home from work so just before her coming home we heard this noise yes always noises with us…but it was like a rumble or rolling something around kind of noise so my husband ¬†said oh I ¬†believe ¬†he’s up I am telling him no when our son goes to bed that’s exactly ¬†what he does. So my poor husband starts walking through the house , went down to my daughters downstairs back into check our son …nothing but still noise so he went outside comes in whips open the bedroom window says listen we waited and I heard it in the distance, it sounded like a grand finale of fireworks but where and why ? It’s a Tuesday night .. so strange my husband was just happy I heard it and he figured it out instead of thinking he was loosing his mind hahaha but anyways so strange why? … always something .


Today was  a day full of unexpected surprises for instance as I was enjoying my morning coffee I was looking to see what was treading on Twitter , yes I’m a twitter fan  so I came up on an an article that was  saying how there was an attacking squirrel in one of the New York Parks and it attacked 5 people I was shocked . Any how I  signed out and started laundry and Then proceeded into the living room to tidy up things you know always something needs to be picked up.or wiped down. I heard a clunk and then a persistent tapping my daughters friend heard it as well so we started looking around  first we thought it was the washing machine … nope ok well we then found it and it was looking right at us on top of my deck chairs a squirrel and it was literally  pressed to my window that doesn’t have a screen luckily we do not open that side . Well it was tapping with it’s claws at my window then jumped into it and got back up on chair and was staring at us again it all happened so fast , her and I screamed and the thing ran up on to the deck railing along it stopped and stared at us . My daughters friend screamed shut the door before it comes through the screen oh I did …. we just stood there looking at one another and I thought of that darn article …and wondered what the heck is wrong with these squirrels so   crazy  thankfully he hasn’t been back , after things where done and supper started I turned on a channel that one of my oldie but goodies  80″s show came on 7th Heaven haven’t seen this showing since the end of winter I was happy ! The ironic thing it was an episode of the kids growing up and the parents seeing through their eyes them as children but then it brings them back to being older and the parents are seeing that they need to let go . Hmmm what I have been struggling with can you say sign? Now if you asked my son he would argue that he does not believe in signs or superstitions okay some superstitions I don’t but signs YES! What do you think do you believe in signs? Let me know. Time to go and have some supper. 



So we found out that Miss Abigail is afraid of the sound of owls if you read last night’s post we thought the boy’s …coyote where howling figured it out it was owls. Miss Abigail was hiding its strange because the boy’s do not scare her so it was strange to see this reaction. My daughter came home a little bit after and I didn’t think to warn her of the noise…she heard but something different because she told us when she got out of her car and was walking ¬†up to the door she heard branches cracking in the woods and dropped everything in her hands getting in the door the ¬†wildlife was out and about more then usual and there wasn’t even a full moon. ¬†A strange night. Indeed ¬†It should be quiet tonight because it’s a rainy cool one things should be settled in and staying warm and dry. Will see.

Saturday …

It’s been a brutally ¬†cold Saturday ¬†so my husband ¬†and I where fine to stay home today and keep warm . We decided since we where home and the kids where off doing their things we would watch a movie ¬†so we thought humor drama sad romance hmm…well we decided on humor would be nice to laugh. The movie we chose ¬†was Sausage Party …Oh boy hmmm well what a pick hahaha okay we really did not know what we were in for .let’s say maybe animated ¬†but so not for kids well under was so nasty I can’t even begin to describe how nasty ..and we will never look at food the same for awhile….Oh it was not what I was expecting okay it was funny but literally ¬†just bad .So my Son did warn us not to one day when my daughter said watch it …well she came home from work and saw that we where watching it and went into hysterics ¬†and she just couldn’t believe the looks ¬†on our faces hahaha I think she liked seeing us look awkward .So that was our night and I am still ¬†trying to get it out of ¬†my head, I hope I do not dream about singing food tonight yeah you ha e to watch it to understand or not. .well time to call it a night










Crazy stuff…just had to share….

What a crazy weekend my kids were actually home at night…I was able to sleep in then sit and relax and enjoy my coffee¬† or two, so nice on Saturday night the night to change our clocks forward I was strolling through Twitter and I was laying in bed with my husband and I was telling him how my soapy was because someone posted about it with a photo of a scene and it was the guy that played the psycho the bad guy and I had posted 2 things about it and my husband was like get the phone out of my face jokingly so I said fine them¬† I shut it off and went to sleep that night I dreamed I was in the soap and the that scene …it was so strange hahaha never done that but the strangest thing¬† the next morning I¬† turned my cell on and noticed to notifications to likes on a tweet I posted about the soap and it was the from the actor that played the psycho, bad guy.. and it truly was him my daughter checked it out…. such timing. ¬† Yes this is so random but just had to share it.¬† can’t see that happening again or anytime soon especially my kids being home at the same time and on a weekend hahahaha.