Life…

Life…. Should be lived one day at a time ,and we should never take anything or anybody for granted we should always be grateful for what we have and cherish the people in our lives its not about how many things we have or how much money we make its about being with the ones you love and their happiness , that is what I believe , because life is just too short.❤️

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Hmm.. waiting …teenagers!

It’s 10:30 at night and your laying in bed and nothing good is on t.v.  Your waiting for your teenager to arrive home because he is out with his friends but for some reason a good reason you can’t help what is going through your mind.. hmm not good things I will admit … so what do you do to distract yourself  and wait patiently … you play Bubble Pop on your phone. Hahahaha is it working yes more then the flipping through t.v. Channels and reading . Now I’m not saying it works for everyone but for me it helps 🙂 luckily he texted me said he was on his way so hopefully soon. This game is very addicting. I’ve found it awhile ago it helps on occasions like this . Do not try it to get you  to sleep it doesn’t work I’ve tried , …it keeps me up. Well back to playing until my son arrives goodnigh  Everyone.

Nights Thinking… 

The evenings are so much shorter these days as I’m not just talking about it getting darker earlier , it just used to be consumed by early suppers then getting the kids doing and finishing their homework then baths and showers and one tv show and reading time and  then off to bed. Now it’s later suppers and whoever is here to eat what I make and when then earlier settling in bed to watch some shows but now replaced with catching up on them on stream lining NBC the next day because hubby has to get up so much earlier for work so earlier to bed because we are older now and mornings are not good without the proper sleep🙄 how things have changed … oh believe me this is not a rant or complaint just a sad statement to life  and how much it changed in the past couple of years . I’m adjusting it’s a lot more simple  and sometimes less stressful but I’m learning or should say my hubby and I are learning how to relate to our older kids now and our life with eachother again … you will be so surprised if your younger and just starting out with marriage, babies and your reading this and going what ? Believe me now that my kids have grown and we are less needed and the focus is not all on them . You  come to realize how much you and your better half have changed and grown it’s such an amazing thing . I find that we are settled in our own routine and that’s okay and we have our routine as a couple as well it’s so different how we relate now ,this whole new chapter . Waiting to be discovered .   

This place we call life…

Oh if life came with a manual …. how to treat others how to treat ourself  how to learn that growing means change and change is so important but can be so hard sometimes cruel but at the same time sometimes good a blessing if we only knew the answers to this thing called life but then what ? Would it help us would it only disappoint us when we fund out that this life we have to work for what we want . and who and to find that path on our owner we could fail.  . I know life is hard but once you get through the bad it’s beautiful but you have to take the chance and just do it if not how will you ever know. 

This place we call life…

Oh if life came with a manual …. how to treat others how to treat ourself  how to learn that growing means change and change is so important but can be so hard sometimes cruel but at the same time sometimes good a blessing if we only knew the answers to this thing called life but then what ? Would it help us would it only disappoint us when we fund out that this life we have to work for what we want . and who and to find that path on our owner we could fail.  . I know life is hard but once you get through the bad it’s beautiful but you have to take the chance and just do it if not how will you ever know. 

Thoughts…

We need more love is this world to wash out the hatred that is so upon us. We need to stop all this hatred life is too precious …why I ask do we hurt each other ? Why is it easier to hate then love !… I look up at the beautiful  blue sky and I ask how is it so beautiful when down here where I’m standing is so ugly . Why do we feel the need to destroy  one another in so many different ways  , ? we are all in this world together let us come together and conquer this evil that so badly wants to destroy us.

Quietness …

Ahh…the quietness except for the sound of my fountain and the soft breeze blowing gently at my face letting whims of hair tickling the sides of  my cheeks . The sky is an amazing blue . It’s nice sitting here with the warmth of the sun on me. Soon there will be the sound of  banging doors as everyone comes home and settles in after their busy day but for now it’s just myself and enjoying this serene moment.