All home together!

It’s 8:09 at night and my son is finally home. His flight didn’t come in untill 6:40 tonight instead of 12.39 this afternoon the storms in the South delayed everything. Now we all are home together all 4 of us . It’s nice . Especially with having both my kids home tonight. Relaxing watching tv and chatting. It’s so nice! I can’t say it enough. My son is calm ,relaxed . .. but still coughing bad so he will be seeing the Dr. on Monday if possible. Well going to spends sometime with everyone until we call it a night.

I’m noticing a white mark on my sons face I think it’s the lighting at the airport when I took it quickly when he jumped into the truck ….so it’s not food lol🙂

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New Moment!

It’s late afternoon and just arrived home with running to the Mall with my Son . When he woke he asked if I wanted to take a ride to the Mall with him and I was so happy ..you must be like what’s the bing deal well this is my 17 yr old asking me his mom the one who rarely wants to hang out with mom . So this was such a pleasant surprise. It was a perfect time to use my gift cards I had .for the book store ,and spends some time with my newly graduated teen .when we arrived at the Mall he headed in the men’s store and I to the book store, Barnes and Noble there was so many books I wanted and that was such a great feeling because it’s been awhile to feel this excited over books . It’s nice to feel like the avid reader I use to be. I purchased a couple good books thanks to my blogger friend “Its not so much a jaded life **its my world “I hope I got that right.who posted the Stephen KingThe Outsider and then met my son and we grabbed a quick bite on our way back home . As he drove we chatted about random things and then some main things about him Leaving for Basic Training in Oct and how he was excited but nervous and we talked about College it was nice . We laughed about random things as well . I’m happy we spent the afternoon together I hope he is understanding it’s okay to hang out with mom once in awhile . Like I said this is my 17 yr old independent but not..my very socially athletic determined son who is so opposite from his sister and my not so easy one out of the two to raise 🙂 but love him the way he is even if he has kept me up nights since the day he was born to being colic then waking in the middle of the night to get him off his games and go to bed to high school yrs waiting for him to get home so I could sleep. 🙂 but then there’s the side that is loyal to family ,women , his friends and never lets nothing stops him . So now we are home and he is off to his Tues night workout . And I’m going to make some dinner and then settle in with my hubby and the air conditioner and read … it’s not looking like a good night to sit out on the deck that I had hoped still way to warm . 😰

Out and about..

Today was spent with my daughter which was a pleasant surprise catching a late day lunch at one of our favorite places Panera Bread, it’s such a great relaxing place ,your not rushed to leave your table people spend a good amount of time enjoying good conversations with family , friends, some sit enjoy their food while on their laptop or tablet, or phone or with their favorite book.. For me it seemed more special because it’s been awhile enjoying lunch and spending a day in the city with her, after we went shopping and founds some good bargains my daughter and I walked away with several blouses each .always love a good sale.

It’s evening now and the kids will be out with friends , my hubby and I are relaxing on the deck there is all kinds of sounds as the evening turns into night. It’s peaceful. Soon the stars will be out. Time to sit back and enjoy.

Remember ❤️

Settled in with my hubby under our warm blankets on this cold night  enjoying the Country Music Awards. It pulled at the heart strings they  dedicated  the show to all the tradgedies that have been shaking up our world , the weather the Las Vegas shooting,  New York ,  Texas church shooting all so heart breaking   and so unfair but watching and listening to the music brought all of us together to remember the life’s lost and we will never forget . Even though evil still lurks we can be comforted to know that we stand together and lean on one another and build strength to not let this overcome us we will keep on fighting and and hopefully conquer this  hatred . It was nice to watch this with my famiy and sing along and tear up a bit but most important we watched this together . It’s over now so time to get some sleep .sweet dreams everyone.

Remember ❤️

Settled in with my hubby under our warm blankets on this cold night  enjoying the Country Music Awards. It pulled at the heart strings they  dedicated  the show to all the tradgedies that have been shaking up our world , the weather the Las Vegas shooting,  New York ,  Texas church shooting all so heart breaking   and so unfair but watching and listening to the music brought all of us together to remember the life’s lost and we will never forget . Even though evil still lurks we can be comforted to know that we stand together and lean on one another and build strength to not let this overcome us we will keep on fighting and and hopefully conquer this  hatred . It was nice to watch this with my famiy and sing along and tear up a bit but most important we watched this together . It’s over now so time to get some sleep .sweet dreams everyone.

Remember ❤️

Settled in with my hubby under our warm blankets on this cold night  enjoying the Country Music Awards. It pulled at the heart strings they  dedicated  the show to all the tradgedies that have been shaking up our world , the weather the Las Vegas shooting,  New York ,  Texas church shooting all so heart breaking   and so unfair but watching and listening to the music brought all of us together to remember the life’s lost and we will never forget . Even though evil still lurks we can be comforted to know that we stand together and lean on one another and build strength to not let this overcome us we will keep on fighting and and hopefully conquer this  hatred . It was nice to watch this with my famiy and sing along and tear up a bit but most important we watched this together . It’s over now so time to get some sleep .sweet dreams everyone.

Learning….

I guess we are never to old to learn . . I’m learning I need to let things go I had posted in my last post how I was worried about my daughter and her relationship she is in . We had a good talk and we are on the same page , I thought we where not this is where I am  letting people work things out for themselfs ( my  kids) and not to let things get to me when it’s not to my liking well  or different then what I’m use to . ..my daughter is doing what she needs and wants to do at her own pace. I find I’m connecting better with my kids lately . Things baby books you get when your expecting  doesn’t teach you how to be a mother to them when their  older but then again I never read them. I just went by my heart   and my hearts is telling me now this is right what I’m learning , ,it’s hard I find myself biting my tongue a lot lately this is going to take some time  but I need to let go a bit more and let them learn to take care of things and let them fail too if that’s the case. 

     This is good for me too and my husband we are doing more together with just us and  this we have not done much  of since we had kids . It’s strange how thinks come full circle again but we are older now and what we did then we do not do now it’s so much different  but I’m enjoying the difference . Change is good.