Shaking my head…

The day went by quietly and calm it was snowing and then rain for most part of the day . Getting things done around the house was easy and then I had time to adult color which I have not done in awhile. That was relaxing. hubby came home and we had supper then cleaned up the kitchen and settled in for our shows . There is a show that came back after 30 years and yes it’s about my time my era and I actually enjoy it the humor it’s funny nothing to take serious just laugh forget about the chaotic world we live in at the moment. A lot of people like a lot do not but that’s fine we do So my hubby and I watched it and yes laughed and now we are settled in bed Tv’s off house is quiet my kids have settled in also for the night . Yes the fan is quietly hummingūüôā I wasn’t ready to sleep so I decided to go on to my Twitter …..such a bad idea especially before bed , . I usually love twitter and respect people’s opinions but found it pretty rude tonight .. really knock a show so bad that it’s hurtful . Say nasty things over something as simple as a tv show. I’m not going to get into the politicalpart of it because there shouldn’t be it’s just a show explaining how things use to be back in the day and yes it’s different harsh parents where not afraid to discipline their child for the fear the children would not like them ….(not perfect family) come one what teenager doesn’t get mad at their parents if you say not yours then your lucky and one of the many. Any how that’s one of the reasons it’s not liked also but it was just the hurtful comments the way people expressed harshly and the show was and not up to their standards hmmm something is wrong here we have kids and yes it’s trended on Twitter and any other social media site …our generation eating tide pods and if that’s not bad enough now the new thing is snorting condoms then they pull it out of their mouth , yes you read that right .. yes nasty , why no one knows . Hmm for the fun of it yes our standards , maybe we should stop with our opinion about oh what’s right what’s wrong on tv and watch what our kids are doing . Really do we have a right to be so hurtful and judgmental over something so little as a show and complaining over social media okay yes we do but hmm somethings wrong here when our kids could be getting seriously hurt or killed by the latest ridiculous new trend and believe me I know how bad it is I have a friend who’s a nurse and if this gets stuck in their nasals the procedure is nasty and sadly lucky if they survive .. I’m shaking my head … where did society go wrong ? Our priorities are so backwards yes judge a show call someone nasty name but all the while your kid could be doing one of these new trends ok if you don’t have kids okay then you live in a society where we do this but judge on the things that are so meaningless. hmm tell me who’s right who’s wrong matters so much now. Sadly I’m thinking I need to to stop looking at Twitter enjoy my shows laugh at them enjoy some books , adult color do my writing and laugh and chat and yes enjoy my family more . Let the rest of the word tweet away. And with that said yes only my opinion ūüė¶ Good Night Everyone ūüôā

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Monday!

Today I realized that its been 4days ¬†of not being on Facebook , yes I know wow what an accomplishment ūüôā actually for me it is so to speak. IM alway on Fb ¬†or at least checking it out every morning…since I had an issue on it last week I took it off my phone things where posting on it that I didn’t do , my friends told me they where having the same issues so I changed the password and took it like I said of my phone. Now it’s on my IPad but my phone is always near by so I tend to go on it more there. I guess a blessing in diguise . This weekend I read more ¬†did more adult coloring and on Friday night I was home by myself I watched two movies and actually enjoyed them without distractions. It was so nice . Today I got so much done and then went with my daughter to Starbucks for a coffee butterscotch flavor so good. ¬†I must say it’s nice and I do not even feel like I’m missing anything . I do still have my Twitter on my phone but that doesn’t pull me in as much there’s really no drama on it . I just like to see what’s trending or ¬† Catching up on the news on it , So yes defiantly keep that on. This tech world can really take over …if you let it. Will see how long I will last. But I know one thing I will keep it off my phone . IM liking that I’m getting back into the reading and coloring and my nose is not in my phone all the time ūüôā¬†image

Sigh…

Today was  a day full of unexpected surprises for instance as I was enjoying my morning coffee I was looking to see what was treading on Twitter , yes I’m a twitter fan  so I came up on an an article that was  saying how there was an attacking squirrel in one of the New York Parks and it attacked 5 people I was shocked . Any how I  signed out and started laundry and Then proceeded into the living room to tidy up things you know always something needs to be picked up.or wiped down. I heard a clunk and then a persistent tapping my daughters friend heard it as well so we started looking around  first we thought it was the washing machine … nope ok well we then found it and it was looking right at us on top of my deck chairs a squirrel and it was literally  pressed to my window that doesn’t have a screen luckily we do not open that side . Well it was tapping with it’s claws at my window then jumped into it and got back up on chair and was staring at us again it all happened so fast , her and I screamed and the thing ran up on to the deck railing along it stopped and stared at us . My daughters friend screamed shut the door before it comes through the screen oh I did …. we just stood there looking at one another and I thought of that darn article …and wondered what the heck is wrong with these squirrels so   crazy  thankfully he hasn’t been back , after things where done and supper started I turned on a channel that one of my oldie but goodies  80″s show came on 7th Heaven haven’t seen this showing since the end of winter I was happy ! The ironic thing it was an episode of the kids growing up and the parents seeing through their eyes them as children but then it brings them back to being older and the parents are seeing that they need to let go . Hmmm what I have been struggling with can you say sign? Now if you asked my son he would argue that he does not believe in signs or superstitions okay some superstitions I don’t but signs YES! What do you think do you believe in signs? Let me know. Time to go and have some supper. 

Content….

Laying in bed relaxing at 9:30 at night just because ¬†everyone ¬†else has settled in actually ¬†feels pretty ¬†nice a strange feeling of content has swept ¬†over me it’s¬† been a nice weekend and this is a perfect ending to it. I will fill you in on this weekend on Photo ¬†Monday because my photo will be about this weekend. So for now I’m going to relax lay in bed go on Twitter once it’s been awhile and catch up on things enjoy your night everyone.

 

Beautiful morning..

The Sun was so welcoming this morning after a cloudy day the day before . I couldn’t help myself to capture a picture on the way to school and yes my son was driving. It¬† was just so uplifting¬† It was well due needed the suns energy on me.. I have¬† been feeling so over whelmed lately with everything that has needed¬† to be done, paid etc…¬† that worrying as got the best of me which I do not like to let this¬† happen to often. I cannot wait for things to wined¬† down just a bit.I will ¬† take it day by day or at least try to. I know there still is ¬† the holidays to add in going to or try to take in stride¬† ….yes… do not get me wrong love the holidays I am just having a hard time getting into them¬† this year , much¬† .. much¬† harder when your kids are adults and teenagers so not the same …The magic of Santa is what I miss¬† the most especially this one memory¬† .¬† when¬† my kids where young. There Daycare use to give out these little packages of reindeer food which was oatmeal and other safe edible ingredients¬† if squirrels ate it¬† so Christmas eve before the kid’s would go to bed they would sprinkle it on the front yard¬† and Santa’s Reindeer would smell it and bring Santa to the house they did know after they did this they had to go to bed and they did hahaha ¬† but it¬† was the look¬† their faces how they would light up as they sprinkled it well my son liked to throw it¬† ūüôā¬† my daughter was so dainty.. she would sprinkle it just so ..oh¬† how miss those moments.¬†¬† I am happy we have those memories to look back on. I have now replaced it in which Is what we should¬† think more of is¬† counting our blessings , I always have but now it’s more meaningful when your kids are old enough to share this meaning with you,, happy they know what is important¬† there¬† also finding even though holidays are coming life is busy for them¬† and they still have their responsibilities¬† how life changes in¬† one blink. Where did all those years go?….hmm a question I ask myself at least once a day ūüôā So I am trying to just walk sometimes it’s a crawl¬† through this new journey of life but I do know somethings that¬† have¬† not changed¬† is still having¬† our schedule maybe a bit different¬† no more writing in kid play dates¬† to¬† or kid parties . now writing in¬† driving time for my son, exam fees due. Sport meets to be at.. work drop offs¬† yeah I think it’s a bit busier in a¬† different¬† way, and no more little kids running around the house with their friends but my son and daughters girlfriend¬† and boyfriend coming over¬† loud music banging through my sons wall my son and his friends coming and going through my front door my daughter¬† having a girls night with drinks and movies yes their 21 and her friends stay over good thing she has a furnished basement . but I¬† must admit I like the noise and there chaos ūüôā with all this newness comes a little more quiet nights home with just my husband and then that’s¬† when we find Some time¬† for a¬† ride and enjoy a coffee or grab takeout and settle in with a¬† good movie and enjoy one another’s company that time has changed more then ever we forget how it use to be just him and I so do not forget this a very important thing to remember when it comes to this for all of you new parents.¬† There¬† is¬† hope some things that do¬† not change ūüôā all though this I would not mind¬† is Laundry having to be done ūüė¶¬† which my Son could do but mom does it better.hmmm good one on his part. lets not forget the rest of the housework ughhh …then dinners to¬† be made . yes¬† all the fun things. I must say I am happy today house work is done supper is ready to be made when time the comes and I actually enjoyed my coffee and news this morning I believe it was the sun yes going to hold on to that thought. and so now today is pretty much mine and my pups¬† yes my loyal friend. so I will wait for my favorite show¬† do some adult coloring and yes tweet love twitter… tomorrow will be another day oh yes …but today¬† It’s a me¬† day !!!

Yes Soap opera (Soapy’s)

20160302_132144-1-1Yes I watch Soaps …. actually one soap¬† my favorite¬† Days of our lives . My favorite hour of the day¬† at 1:00 and people who know me well do not call or talk to me at that time. I started watching this when I became pregnant with my 1st child and I decided to be a stay at home mom so that is 20 yrs so far of watching this amazing daytime show I rocked her and then my 2nd child my son to sleep watching this . and ever since then its just gets better and better its like a good book romance drama yes you name it. and now I tweet as I watch it with my twitter friends yes I call them my friends everyday good amount of us tweet as we watch it it’s great we laugh we share our sadness and happiness through our tweets and yes and unhappiness too . Today was an end of an era the rich madman villain head of the the family dynasty who has been on since 1982 did a farewell episode amazing flashbacks and memories the characters talked about it was actually sad because he was such a great actor but decided due to health reason time to say goodbye and it was just amazing how it came to an end. good by Stefano Dimera…….

A New Day…

A rainy foggy day in my location but all is good Laundry is done dinner is set and enjoyed my hour of my show Days of our lives¬† with my twitter friends . just love them, love our tweets ūüôā and soon my sweet daughter is¬† bringing me home a mocha latte so yummy!¬† My Sons brings home his¬† report card Beautiful!! he made it on Honor Roll ,Love… life is good see¬† it ¬† is all about the little things that keep me happy. life is short and God gives us a new day as a gift so the way we honor them is by making them a good day and being happy no matter how simple it is. I have learned so much in the past yrs and one of them is to never take anything for granted . I just wish more people could learn this. life is a gift and I intend to cherish that, do not get me wrong I have my moments but we are only human I try everyday day that I’m given to be a better person¬† and to instill that in my Kid’s . Isn’t there¬† enough hate in this world? that we could spread a little¬† more love?